As you forge forward in this life, consider the most important commandment the Lord has given you. It is a commandment that if you keep it, you will, in turn, keep all of His commandments. What is this commandment?
Love one another.
A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this, all people will know that you are my disciples if you have love for one another.” John 13:34-35
If you love your neighbors, parents, brothers, sisters, everyone you come in contact with each day, and even your enemies, you will also desire to obey all the rest of God’s commands. This will prove that you are truly born of God and a child of God.
Whoever has my commandments and keeps them, he it is who loves me. And he who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him and manifest myself to him.” John 14:21
You will reap what you sow. If you love you will be loved, but if you hate you will be hated. It is a two-way street. Though it is true that there are people who will hate you because you follow Jesus, it is the Lord in you that they hate.
“If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you.” John 15:18-19
Are the fruits of the Spirit of God being displayed for all to see? If not, you should evaluate your heart. If you are filled with bitterness, envy, strife, lust, hate, greed, and jealousy, you need the Lord Jesus Christ to fill you with His love. God will give you His love and Spirit if you seek Him to follow His ways.
You can only receive true love if you are given it first by God. He wants to give it to you as a gift, but you must give your life to Him and forsake all sin and wicked desires.
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. 1 John 4:7-8
If His Spirit is truly in you, if He has given you His love, you will display His character. Which is love, joy, peace, goodness, kindness, patience, faithfulness, temperance, and self-control.
“For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.” Luke 6:45
Cry out to the Lord for forgiveness. Ask Him for His Spirit to come and fill you with His love that you can then pour it out on others without cost. He will change your heart and mind so you will be able to love one another.
It is only through the power of the Holy Spirit that you can be changed. It is only through the love of God that we can truly love others.
Read these last 5 verses and test yourself to see if you truly possess the love of God. This is true love. Then ask God for this love, receive it, and then give it.
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8